Blaming others for the difficulties and conflicts we face is an alluring option. It’s ego-protective, in that we save face by pointing out the other person’s transgressions. We’ve been pretty acculturated to blame as a way to engage in conflict and protect ourselves, our assets, our rights. And we may genuinely believe that it wasn’t [...]

How do you put a giraffe in the refrigerator?
Open the refrigerator, put in the giraffe and close the door. This question tests whether you tend to do simple things in an overly complicated way.
How do you put an elephant into a refrigerator?
Open the refrigerator, take out the giraffe, put in the elephant and close the [...]