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During conflict we tend to turn our attention to managing the other person or getting her to behave differently.
Realistically, though, the only persons we can truly control or manage during conflict are ourselves. And in managing our own reactions, in seeking more constructive responses from ourselves, we inevitably change the interaction with the other person. [...]