In computer science, garbage in, garbage out (or GIGO) refers to the notion that faulty input yields erroneous output.

GIGO is true in conflict and resolution, too. For instance:

Garbage in: Diagnosis of their personality flaws or psychological condition (e.g., they’re just rude, passive-aggressive, manipulative, etc.).
Garbage out: Argument focuses on what’s wrong with them and how to fix it. They, of course, defend and push back. You’re off to the races. [Read more...]